Welcome back the continuation of this series entitled “Mental Strength Habits Of A Purpose Focused Man”
We’ve been breaking down 21 mental strength habits, one by one, of men with a purpose driven life. These habits are in 5 categories; mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and finances.
If this is your first time here the link back to “Mental Strength Habits Of A Purpose Focused Man – Part I.
I want to mention again, my belief is that there is no “mid-life crisis” for men…well generally speaking.
What I think a “mid-life crisis” is, is a lack of focus and purpose. When men lose their purpose, they lose their focus. When they lose their focus they feel lost. Many men attempt to find themselves in unproductive behaviors and this has been labeled a “mid-life crisis.”
My main point of these posts, as well as my private intensive, The 2nd Passage, is to help men realize that they do have a mission and purpose in life. And once they find it they can live a life of power, purpose, passion and perseverance!
I hope is that through these series of posts and The 2nd Passage, I will help men who, admittedly or not, are experiencing a mid-life emptiness and guide them back to manhood and step into their masculinity…without becoming a jerk.
The is the last trait that falls under the category of “Mental Habits”
Creativity
Purpose Focused Man
- Supreme pleasure in creating something where once nothing existed.
- Loves to solve problems
- Turns problems into opportunities and turn opportunities into achievements
- Predictable pattern of conceiving, developing, refining and brining into realty their ideas
- 4 stage process
- 1st – Perceives a need or problem and gains all info about it and then releases the problem and turns attention elsewhere.
- 2nd – Incubation, lets his unconsciousness mind work on the problem.
- 3rd – Spontaneously receives the answer and does receive the answer
- 4th – Implement solution
- Their life blood
Creativity is the life blood a man with a purpose driven life. They are actively seeking ways to improve or fix situations, not for themselves…so that others can benefit. They have developed a process they trust explicitly of finding the problem. They do this by asking their unconsciousness mind to solve it, letting the problem go out of mind being open and respective to the answer that always shows up.
Using this creativity perspective all they see are opportunities around them, there are no problems, just situations that haven’t been solved yet.
This creativity energizing them everyday…they can’t wait see what they’ll discover next. They’re like a rhino charging through the jungle.
No Purpose, Unfocused Man
- What for someone else to solve the problem, after all, they didn’t create it.
- Follow the crowd
- Why waste their time on a solution if they aren’t going to get paid for it
- Not my job
The man not on the path of a purpose driven life see’s obstacles and problems all around and complains that “somebody” needs to fix it.
They follow the rest of the cows and complain about that they’re not being taken care of.
They see “problems” as someone else’s job to fix, not theirs.
They live a sad and uninspired life with no creative outlet, except for how to watch two channels at the same time.
Self Assessment
So looking at the characteristic of this mental strength behavior of creativity for a man with a purpose driven life, take this quick survey and see how well you’re doing… and please have the courage to be honest with yourself.
Creativity: The habit of creatively turning problems into opportunities. The ability to conceive, develop, refine, and transform one’s opportunities into successes.
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Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
OK guys…I hope you’re beginning to get a sense of where you are. And there is not right or wrong place. And the awareness will help make a decision on what action to take.
If this post has raised some questions, consider investing in yourself, your vision and your life. Take a look at The 2nd Passage for a way to put your power, passion and purpose into action and life a purposed driven life.
I’ll leave you with this quote:
“Necessity is the mother of invention.” – Plato
In other words, what this means is difficult situations inspire ingenious solutions.

Success in life is not about luck! It’s about managed thoughts, focused attention and deliberate action. Personal success and personal failure all start in the mind. Tap into the power of your unconsciousness mind and eliminate negative beliefs that have been holding back from reaching your personal goals.
Take back control of your thoughts and your life! Grab a copy of Develop the Mental Strength of a Warrior” today so that you can start living the life you’ve always dreamed of.
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More from Warrior Mind Coach
- Mental Strength Habits Of A Purpose Driven Man – Part II
- Mental Strength Habits Of A Purpose Focused Man – Part III
- Mental Strength Habits Of A Purpose Focused Man – Part 10

Hi Julia, wow…thank you for sharing so much. Because this is a public post I fee I can only give MY perspective. This is not intended as advice or suggestions, for that you’d need to contact a consular, therapist or me in a professional manner.
My perception from you have described is that I would take the same action that you are. I’d prefer not to go into this further in a public forum.
If you’d like to discuss this in a confidential fashion please contact me…or someone
I can only say that it appears that you have perspective that is empowering you, and that’s the key!
Hello. I was really fascinated by your website especially of Mental strenghts habits of a purpose driven man. You see I am in a marriage where my husband is one of blaming other people for a situation he would put himself into and expect me to rescue him because if I dont the consequences will be my fault. As an example: he borrowed money ($70) from a friends mother whom he has grown close to but i am not liked by her for what reason I really dont care. He is demanding that I give him the money because she will be mad at him and their friendship will be lost and as he states it will be my fault and if I want her to like me I best give him the money. I am refusing it for several reasons: 1) I really dont care to be liked by someone if money will be a factor in getting me liked 2) this is a situation he put himself in and I dont feel like rescuing him and worrying that he will not have her as a friend. 3) he needs to find a way to pay her back because it was his choice to borrow money from her. Mind you he is a 49 year old man whom I have been married to for 20 years. I go to work every day to support the family (5 members) while he cannot work because of a neck surgery but he is capable of working perhaps in an office job. Well thats my story and I will not accept his abuse of telling me that his actions and me not rescuing him will result in negative consequences that will be my fault. What do you think?