How to Handle Pressure Without Melting Down: Warrior Mind Podcast #298

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In this episode of the Warrior Mind Podcast I going to talk about pressure, stress and how to handle it without melting down.

Pressure is simply the anxiety and nervousness you feel when faced with a certain stimulus or situation.  Pressure always comes from within.

If you’re experiencing and being negatively affected by pressure, you are the cause and you are the solution.

The sooner you’re able to recognize the signs of pressure, the sooner you can begin to control over it.

Signs of Pressure:

Physical

• Shallow breathing
• Increased heart rate
• Increased perspiration
• Restlessness
• Muscle tension and tightness
• Nausea

Mental

• Inability to focus
• Thoughts of dread, worry, or failure
• A racing mind
• Worry about how others will view your performance
• Obsessing about poor performance in the past

Emotional

• Anxiety
• Fear
• Nervousness
• Panic
• Irritation
• Stress

Behavioral

• Acting in a way that seems odd compared to your usual behavior
• Hurrying
• Fidgeting
• Having a tantrum
• Talking rapidly

Each person experiences pressure slightly differently – not only in terms of the situations that result in pressure but also in terms of his/her response to it.

Regardless of what causes pressure for you, on thing remains true; You have control over pressure!

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Identify Pressure Situations

Just as being aware of the signs of pressure, it is equally important to know the situations and circumstances that bring up pressure for you.

Some examples are:

• Feeling overwhelmed by the demands of being the best
• Trying to prove yourself
• Obsessing about whether your results will bring you rewards
• Not want to let others down
• Trying not to embarrass yourself in front of others

You won’t feel pressure if you don’t overthink the situation.

There is a difference between arousal and pressure. Pressure starts in the mind. It begins with a negative thought about what you are about to do and spirals down from there.

Arousal is a continuum – it can be positive or negative.  Arousal is the physical reaction your body experiences during competitive situation.

Stress and Peak Performance

Peak performance is the ability to efficiently function at your best, enabling you to express your full potential.

Peak performance is the flip side of effective stress management.  The two are inextricably linked.  Optimizing performance means responding positively to challenge, to pressure to achieve significant goals and targets.  It usually involves dealing with some form of adversity or difficulty that would deter a lesser motivated individual.

Developing Mental Strength is an important ingredient in enabling you to perform to the best of your abilities.

Key Characteristics of High-Performing Individuals

• Passion: A high level of interest in pursuits
• High Self-Confidence: A high level of confidence in their own abilities and their ability to deal with others
• Controlling What They Can: And not worrying unnecessarily about the things they can’t control
• Resilience – Dealing with Setbacks: The ability to bounce back
• Seeing the Challenge not the Threat: Finding opportunities for self-development within each new challenge
• Focus: The ability to clear the mind of unnecessary thoughts and clutter
• The Ability to Relax: And can recognize when they need to relax

Tools to Handle Pressure

Handling pressure, like anything else, requires practices, time and patience.  You must allow yourself to make small progress, instead of trying to eliminate pressure all at once (which will actually cause more stress).

Below are some tools that you can use to begin to deal with pressure and stress

• Self-talk
  • Positive affirmations of what you WANT
• Relaxation techniques
  • Progressive muscle relaxation
• Controlled breathing
  • Breath in 7, hold for 3, exhale for 11
• Guided imagery/visualization
  • Visualizing the successful completion of the task
• Biofeedback
  • Heartrate monitor
• Journaling
  • What you can control

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