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This podcast is based on Mental Strength Tip #13 – Personal Success Starts With IntegrityWarrior Mind Podcast

According to dictionary.com, integrity can be defined as:

1. Adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character; honesty.

2. The state of being whole, entire, or undiminished

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For the purpose of the tip integrity is when what you think, what you say and what you do are the same.  When a person is in integrity, personal success and peak personal performance will come with ease.

There is a connection between self-image, behavior and the words you speak.   This kind of like the Boy Scouts and the oath associated with it, A SCOUT IS CLEAN IN THOUGHT, WORD AND DEED.”  This is a prime example of integrity.

Mental Strength Coaching:

Once you’ve made the connection between self-image and integrity, it’s time to address the issues that are eroding your level of self-respect.  I encourage you to really see yourself as the most integral person on the plant.  This will allow the kind of behavior that goes with that vision to unfold.  By doing this, you’ll be able to ‘test drive’ what it feels like to have the mental strength aspect of rock solid integrity.  The longer you ‘pretend’ to be this person, the more you’ll prefer to operate in this mode.  Loving and respecting yourself feels great, and carrying that into your interactions with others just adds to the jubilation you’ll experience.

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This episode of the Warrior Mind Podcast is in reference to Mental Strength Tip #12 – Adversity is Essential for Personal Warrior Mind PodcastSuccess and discusses the importance of adversity plays in our lives and personal growth. Adversity is required and necessary for us to experience personal growth and to achieve personal success.

The real issue is how we label and frame an event.  For some, adversity is challenging, something to test oneself.  For others they think adversity means they’re doing something wrong.  After all isn’t the Law of Attraction supposed to make life easy?

In your body if you don’t use your muscles they atrophy.  You have to have some stress….some “adversity” to simulate growth.  This is how adversity works in our lives.  It provides the stress for us to experience personal growth.

The funny thing about adversity, the more you try to avoid it, the more you get.  This IS the Law of Attraction in action!  You are focusing on adversity, so you get it!

When you shift your perspective and begin to see adversity as an adventure that will help with your personal growth

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So, let me ask you, what does difficulty mean to you? The way you answer this question will reveal a lot about your beliefs surrounding success and your performance (how you show up).  If you feel that you life is hard, unfair and only the “lucky” or unscrupulous succeed…well then you’ll need to spend some time at mental strength bootcamp.  If however, you understand that adversity is a sign that you’re taking action and you’re on the path to personal success….well then, let’s move on!

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The first step here is to determine your current level of consciousness (that’s where answering the above questions come in) and then begin moving your thinking to a higher level of awareness.  This is done by helping you understand that your greatest achievements and breakthroughs have come and will come out of your greatest adversities.  Building this mental strength habit of being more concerned about how you respond to adversity as opposed to the adversity itself is a continual practice.  The more you practice, the better you get.  The better you get, the more you’ll achieve your peak personal performance.

Final Thought

Peak performance individuals aren’t out looking for adversity to conquer, but they are mentally equipped to deal with them as the need arises.  Just as the military guard out boarders, the mental strong are well prepared and trained to handle any threat on any lever and respond in a proportional manner.

My job as a mental strength coach is to help you develop the beliefs that you have the ability and skill to adequately deal with any adversity that life throws at you. Once this belief takes hold, you become fearless, courageous and free to attack life with all the talent and ability you have inside!

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This is the continuation and last segment for this topic.  If this is your first visit here you can here is Personal personal empowermentEmpowerment and Responsibility – Part I

In Part I we covered that you can be either on the ‘cause’ side or the ‘effect’ side.  That is, you either have results or excuses, you’re either play the ‘hero’ or you play the ‘victim’, the choice is yours.

We finished up with three options for playing the Blame Game when something goes wrong that does not give us personal empowerment.   We’ll now take a closer look at the options.

We are Bad or Wrong: The first option is so painful for us that our tendency is to look to the other two. This becomes easy to do because most situations involve other people who we could choose to blame. Where we can‘t blame other people, there are always circumstances to blame.

Let me explain how this works in practice. Harvey agreed to meet his adult daughter for dinner. He had not seen her for a long time and their relationship was not strong. Harvey rushed out to meet her into a blinding snowstorm and became stuck in the snow (obviously Harvey didn’t live in Southern California). If Harvey were playing the Blame Game, he could either

Blame Himself: He could feel bad or wrong for being foolish enough to drive into a snowstorm. He could feel guilty for neglecting his daughter lately to the point where he didn‘t feel as though he could cancel their dinner, even as the bad weather closed in. In short he could feel bad and wrong, even guilty.

Blame Others: He could feel angry at his daughter for not having the dinner in a more convenient place or for not cancelling when the weather turned bad. He could even sit and think about all the other things she had done in the past to make their relationship strained. In short, he could blame her!

Blame Circumstances: He could blame the car or blame the weather. How could he have known this would happen? If his relationship with his daughter gets worse it will be because the weather was bad and his car is unreliable.

The problem with all three of these options is that they leave Harvey stuck and disempowered!

Not just stuck in the snow drift but stuck in his poor relationship with his daughter, and stuck in his feelings of powerlessness. The problem with the Blame Game is that it is utterly useless for providing Harvey with a way forward and does not give him personal empowerment.

If Harvey chose responsibility and personal power, however, a range of options would open up. Harvey could decide never to drive out in bad weather again, not because he was bad or wrong for doing so, but because taking responsibility gives him the possibility of a different future.

Harvey could decide on personal empowerment and to take responsibility for the performance of his car so that it performs better in poor conditions. Harvey could also choose to take responsibility for his relationship with his daughter to make sure that he never ends up in the heightened state of anxiety again.

Everyone makes mistakes.

We’re human.

When we make a mistake we need to forgive ourselves for it, so that we can move on and embrace our personal power. Most importantly, we need to forgive ourselves so that we can take responsibility. Taking responsibility for our own actions can be freeing and liberating. It saves our energy because we don‘t have to waste any time making excuses about what we did. By taking responsibility we build character, personal empowerment and self-esteem. We build integrity and clarity.

Language

When we are choosing responsibility we use different language to when we are blaming. This helps us to start even the most difficult conversations. When we take responsibility we use “I” language. We let the other person know how we feel and what we are thinking. We avoid blaming them for how we feel or think.

Letting Go and Moving On

When we are choosing responsibility we let go of anger. There is no need for anger when you have the power to change the situation that you are in. Anger is created when you have no choices, when your path is blocked, and when another person has power over you. If you choose responsibility, then you DO have choices and YOU have power over your own life. There is no need for anger. There is also no TIME for anger, as you have the power now to act!

Contemplation

  • What are three things for which you are taking responsibility in your life?
  • What effect is taking responsibility having in your life?
  • What are some things for which you blame other people or other circumstances? What would it look like if you were to choose responsibility over blame?
  • What are three ways you could have contributed to or caused a given situation in your life?
  • Why do we need to forgive ourselves in order to take responsibility?

Techniques

Accomplice

There are many techniques that we can use to help us (or someone else) to choose responsibility over blame. One way is to see if you can move part of the way. Often people have trouble taking on the perspective that they are 100 percent responsible. However, people can often see how they contributed to a situation, or at least went along with it. So by asking yourself to see how you were an “accomplice” in this matter, you are allowing yourself to take a big step towards becoming responsible.

Extreme Perspective

This is a great technique that allows you to feel the power of responsibility. Do this; describe how you are not the tiniest bit responsible for a situation. How it was all someone else‘s fault. Then describe how you are 100 percent responsible. How you must have “at some level” caused or attracted everything to happen. Now notice the difference between both extreme points of view. Then ask yourself, which of the viewpoints will allow you to move forward towards what you want.

I hope you found this topic of particular interest.  This is by always acting as if your are on the ‘cause’ side you are stepping into your personal power and personal empowerment.

You do make a choice each time…your decision will either give you power or take it away.

References

Goleman, Daniel, Boyatzis, Richard & McKee, Annie, 2002. Primal Leadership. Learning to Lead with Emotional Intelligence, Harvard Business School Press, U.S.A.

For now if you’d like to begin to explore how to stop participating in the Blame Game go ahead and ask for an Introductory Consultation today.

Also, the e-book “Develop the Mental Strength of a Warrior” (also available in a Kindle version) is packed with teachings, questions and exercises to help you move to the “cause” side of the equation.

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Well here we are…at the end of this series of posts.  I hope you not only enjoyed them, but they have helped you Personal Empowermentunderstand your true potential power.   When you understand that you have unlimited potential power, this is the first and major step in personal empowerment.

Many individuals are completely blind to their own beliefs about themselves, and the nature of reality. Your own conscious thoughts will give you excellent clues.” – Seth

The magical approach to personal empowerment and living is both simple and natural, but it does require a radically new way of thinking.

You may have become accustomed to thinking of yourself as just flesh and blood; that you just have logic and intellect to sort your way through the challenges of life.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

These are very exciting times because science is now approaching an understanding of many of the concepts put forward in the ancient wisdom philosophies.

Quantum physics in particular is at the forefront of the sciences in discovering this radically new way of explaining reality.

There are an increasing number of quantum physicists who are at last presenting these new findings to the public without fear of ridicule from their fellow scientists.

Ideas such as an object is not independent of the observer; past, present and future exist simultaneously; the existence of multiple universes; and a unifying energy that underlies all realities are discussed openly at the highest levels of physics.

Physicist Professor Amit Goswami has stated quite clearly that matter, energy and consciousness are the same thing.

This concept alone completely revolutionizes the old ways of understanding the nature of reality and humanity’s role within it.

It opens the way for established science to also recognize a new way of living, a way of personal empowerment!

It is this new seemingly magical approach to personal empowerment and living that will now be discussed.

The magical approach requires a radically new approach to dealing with problems, achieving goals and in fact everything in life.

Life should be thought of as a journey of discovery, in particular a discovery of Self and your true potential.

This journey has often been described in the myths and legends of ancient times as the journey of heroes.

But it is really the personal journey of Self discovery and is no less heroic, this is the basis for The 2nd Passage.

The experiences of the journey will be unique to each person, but the goal will always be the same; to Know Your Self.

Unlike the heroic journeys of myths and legends, your journey does not have to be filled with dragons and hardships.

In fact it can be just the reverse; your journey can be inspiring and joyful.

You may create certain challenges along the way, but you should recognize them as opportunities to learn more about your true nature and your ability to create your own personal experiences.

After all, you are the creator as well as the hero of your own unique journey!

You can now recognize that these challenges represent your fears and worries which are created by limiting beliefs about yourself and what you think is possible and what is not.

Your new understanding of the nature of reality now allows you to change those beliefs and become what you are capable of becoming.

You can now truly start to realize the full potential of your creativity.

However, you should not expect that the full magic of your creativity can be contained within clock time, nor should you think that intellect alone has the full extent of your creativity.

You may sometimes find that the challenge with which you have confronted yourself does not seem to make much sense, from a logical point of view.

This is because the intellect, which uses time and space to view reality, attempts to break the wholeness of reality into small bits and pieces much like the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.

Just as you would have great difficulty in guessing what the whole picture is meant to be just by looking at one piece of the jigsaw, so the intellect can make wrong assumptions about a situation because it only sees one part of reality at a time.

You may be so used to thinking that only logic or intellect can solve your problem that you fall into the trap of forgetting you have at your disposal that other powerful tool called intuition, which can see a much larger portion of reality and so can make better judgments.

As you learn to recognize that the intellect cannot deal with everything by itself, nor does it need to, you will more easily let the intellect do what it does best, which is to deal with time and space.

Just because you may not be physically doing something about a certain challenge within your waking state of consciousness, it does not mean that you are not dealing with it using other areas of your being.

Therefore, on those occasions when logic cannot make sense of a particular situation, you must implement the natural way of working; which is to let go of the logical approach and engage the magical approach.

The more you understand this, the more comfortable you will feel about intellect working in cooperation with intuition, expecting the best outcome and not worrying about trying to understand the details.

This is a truly magical approach to personal empowerment by integrating your whole being rather than just trying to use a part of it.

Another important and liberating aspect of the magical approach to living is the concept of living in the present moment.

This is utilizing the concept of past, present and future existing simultaneously.

You now know that you do not have a fixed past or future and that all your experiences stem from the beliefs you hold in the present moment, which in truth is all there is.

It therefore follows from this that all your attention should be focused on living and creating in the present moment.

You should not be distracted by what you think of as a fixed past, because this does not exist any more than a fixed future exists.

Believing in a fixed past would be like carrying with you the stepping-stones you have just walked over in order to cross the river.

Believing in a fixed future would be like an artist believing there is only one picture they could paint.

The only rule that you should remember, while creating the experiences you want, is to create with good intent.

As you realize that the only limitations you face are your limiting beliefs, then by acting with good intent in all your actions, you can overcome those limitations.

Acting with good intent can perhaps be best thought of as ensuring that whatever you do is not intended to cause harm.

This does not mean you have to devote yourself to a life of self-sacrifice or put up with bad behavior, as it is important that you act with good intent towards yourself as well as to others.

As part of understanding who you are, it is important that you fully understand who other people are within your personal reality.

It is a common misunderstanding to think that because you create all aspects of your experiences, then all the people you meet are just figments of your imagination; that you are basically just talking to yourself and therefore relationships are meaningless.

This is definitely not the case.

It may seem this way if you insist on trying to understand the nature of reality only from the bottom up point of view of the intellect, because the intellect deals in terms of personalization, separation and objectification.

Your true nature is in the oneness of the Self, but any sense of oneness is an alien concept to intellect because it implies loss of identity.

Intellect alone cannot understand how you can be one and experience individuality at the same time.

In order to explore its nature, states of consciousness are created by the one appearing as the many.

These states of consciousness are experienced as if individually using what appears to be personalized and individualized sets of beliefs.

Just as you create all the ‘other people’ in your dream, you also create your own body-image in your dream.

You then interact with the ‘other people’ as if they are ‘real’ and solid and separate from you.

While you are ‘dreaming’ everything appears ‘real’ and you are not aware that you are the creator of all the objects and all the ‘other people’ in your dream.

The state of consciousness called ‘waking reality’ is just the same; you create all the objects and all the ‘other people’, including your own body image, in just the same way.

While you are personalizing and objectifying your creations you are unaware of yourself as the ‘one consciousness’ that is the creator of all realities.

Again, words are inadequate to fully explain this relationship as they trap you into speaking in terms of ‘I’, ‘we’, ‘you’, which give the false impression of separateness.

This inadequacy of words may give the impression, when dealing with ‘other people’, that you are just talking to ‘yourself’ or having a relationship with ‘yourself’.

This is because intellect can only take the ‘bottom up’ view of personalization and separation and therefore cannot understand your true nature of being ‘one’ but appearing as ‘many’.

In order for the ‘one consciousness’, that you truly are, to explore itself, it appears as all the objects, people, animals and plants that you experience in your ‘daily reality’.

As the ‘one consciousness’ you do this in order to create scenarios for interaction and learning in just the same way that you do in a so-called dream.

Therefore all interactions and relationships are important, whether they seem to be between people, animals, plants or minerals. There are no hierarchies in consciousness, there are just different forms.

This is what the ancient wisdom philosophies were eluding to when they stated that you should love all, that you should treat everyone and everything as ‘yourself’, because in truth everything is ‘yourself’.

Even when you are operating in your bottom up mode of dealing with reality, you are, in truth, constantly connected with everything in all realities, so how can you possibly ever be alone?

You are connected to all consciousness, in whatever form you may perceive it.

As you learn to view reality from the top down, the apparent divisions between what you consider you and not you will dissolve.

This allows you to draw strength and inspiration from your truly limitless nature.

As you become more aware of your true nature of ‘oneness’, you will find it easier to perform the juggling act of seeming like a separate individual, when you take the ‘bottom up’ view, but actually knowing that you are not a separate individual; that you are ‘one’ with all, when you take the ‘top down’ view.

This knowledge will allow you to understand how not to accept ‘bad behavior’, but also not to fall into the trap of believing that there is a solid, separate person ‘out there’ outside of your control who is intent on causing you harm.

Your true nature is the Self, which is timeless and immortal.

The realities you experience are states of consciousness constructed from the beliefs you hold about what is possible and what is not.

This is true about each of the realities you inhabit no matter how you manipulate time and space, or if indeed you use time and space at all.

This reality should not be thought of as inferior. in some way to other realities.

It should be understood that you operate in all realities simultaneously and they are all interdependent.

It is not the case that you have to progress from this reality to another in some hierarchical system.

You are the great mystery of All That Is, where you are One and individual at the same time.

This mystery cannot be comprehended by intellect alone, which can only deal with the wholeness of reality in a piecemeal fashion.

This state of Oneness is beyond time and space and therefore cannot be described in the words of intellect; it requires your intuition which knows it by being it.

You have been shown a very different way to view reality and your part in it.

This new information has probably turned on its head your original understanding of how things are.

Incredible as this new information may seem, it is nonetheless true.

You have been given a toolbox to assist you with creating the experiences you want.

But like all toolboxes, unless you open it and use the tools, you will not achieve anything.

When confronted by any problem, a quick way to regain perspective is to ask yourself the question,

“Who is in charge of my experiences and what do I want?”

The answer of course, in case you were in any doubt, is that you are in charge and you can have anything you want, but always remember to create with good intent!

Know Your Self and enjoy your creations.

When you’re ready to start your journey of magic and personal empowerment The 2nd Passage is an exciting and mystical sojourn into your Self.

Reflective Questions:

  • Give a couple of examples of how these posts have altered your approach to life.
  • Give an example of the difference between desire and expectation.
  • What aspect of these posts do you find the most challenging?
  • Explain how you view a relationship between yourself and another person
  • When confronts by a problem what us a quick way to regain perspective?
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Many people, when they hear the word Responsibility, immediately associate it with burden or having to carry acasue and effect load. Ironically, it is exactly the opposite. Responsibility leads to Freedom. When you take on the perspective that you created a situation, you can change or modify it. With this realization comes a feeling of power and freedom. However, if you take on the perspective that someone or something else caused the situation, then you have NO ability to change it and you are left feeling powerless and resentful.

This is basis of Cause & Effect.  When you are at ‘cause’ you are taking responsibility for your results.  When you are on the ‘effect’ side, you have no personal power, you play the victim.

Cause = Results = Hero

Effect = Reasons = Victim

When we are blaming someone or something else, we are actually giving away our personal power and putting ourselves in the place of being a victim. You see, if every situation is completely the fault of someone or something else, then our hands are bound. We have no choice but to accept it. When we choose to blame, we choose a burden.

If, however, we decide that every situation is something that we created (being at cause), then we are back in control. We can make choices, which will change or at least change the situation. When we choose to take responsibility, we choose freedom.

Responsibility = Freedom + Personal Empowerment

Blame = Loss of Freedom + Disempowerment

Perspective Choice

Responsibility is not just a way to act; it is a way to view our entire lives. It is a perspective that we can choose our personal empowerment. Often we think that a situation just is. It is either our fault, or someone else‘s or maybe even just fate. It will not occur to us that we are choosing a perspective.

Instead, our view of the situation appears to be the “truth”. However, by shifting perspective from blame to responsibility, we can alter the “truth” of the situation. We can change the situation from one where we are powerless, to one where we are empowered.

In any given situation you are either taking responsibility (cause) or you are blaming (effect). It’s one or the other. When you notice you are blaming, you can immediately choose responsibility and gain new freedom in any area of your life. Whether you are blaming others, or simply fate, you can reframe your perspective from blame to responsibility and then freedom.

The Blame Game

There are many reasons why we blame others for the way things are in our lives. Perhaps we are fearful that if we take responsibility we will then be blamed if things go wrong. Perhaps we don‘t fully understand our personal power and don‘t believe that we can choose the life we really want. Perhaps blame seems the easiest way to respond.

Blame is extremely seductive. When you play the Blame Game, you do not have to take responsibility for your life. Decisions are left up to everyone else. Life becomes easier (but only in the short-term!) because there are no choices to make; everyone else makes them for you.

Playing the Blame Game can become addictive. If a person persists in maintaining that someone else is to blame for their problems, this perception can radically distort their view of reality. This further limit’s their choices, making them want to play the Blame Game even more. After a time the Blame Game becomes like a record stuck in a groove, with the same disempowering thoughts supporting more disempowering thoughts.

People who play the Blame Game may then unknowingly mentor others in the Blame Game. Families, workplaces and even whole societies can become infected and then trapped in a culture of blame.

Goleman, Boyatzis and McKee in their book, “Primal Leadership, Learning to Lead with Emotional Intelligence”, refer to this as the ‘open loop’. An open loop is the emotional flow between two people. If one person in the emotional loop is releasing negative energy then this can flow into the open loop making the conversation negative. If positive emotional energy is flowing then this will move through the open loop.

How the Blame Game is Played

I‘m sure you recognize the Blame Game. Here are its rules:

  • Always look outside of yourself for those responsible for doing “it” to you.
  • Believe that you are powerless to change anything.
  • Accept that others are stronger, smarter and more resourceful than you.

How to Stop Playing the Blame Game

  • Know that no one can make you feel anything without your permission.
  • Understand that responsibility is a privilege and start becoming responsible for yourself.
  • Accept that you are human and will make mistakes and this is okay.
  • Realize that not making a choice is making a choice.

Unfortunately, what we don’t realize when we play the Blame Game is that as long as we blame other people or external conditions for what is happening to us, we have no control over our own lives. We become helpless victims of circumstance.

Blame keeps us from fully enjoying life and engaging in our lives. When we view responsibility as a privilege, instead of as a burden, we are truly awakened to the many possibilities in our lives.

Forgiveness

Letting go of blame often involves forgiveness. Forgiving others, and ourselves, doesn‘t mean that we make whatever happened right. It simply means that we let go and embrace the present. Forgiveness is self focus. Forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person, but it has everything to do with us. When we forgive someone, we release ourselves, and free ourselves from the burden of blame. As soon as we stop blaming and decide to forgive, we can let go of that which brings us pain, and embrace the possibility of something else.

Two great processes for forgiveness are Time Empowerment® and ho’oponopono, which is associated with the ancient Hawaiian teaching of Huna.

Forgiving Ourselves

Before you can end the Blame Game you have to learn not to blame yourself. Often we are our own harshest critics. If we make a mistake, instead of accepting that this is a normal part of the human journey, we tell ourselves that we have failed because we are bad or wrong! Others may have trained us into this mode of thinking.

Unwittingly, parents, teachers and others in authority can mentor us into the Blame Game. However we got into this habit, our wish to avoid feeling bad or wrong, makes us look around for other things or people to blame.

Responsibility is not about blaming yourself. Responsibility is not about feeling bad or wrong. Responsibility is about accepting that you have choices ahead of you in the future. Your past choices are gone. They no longer matter. They are never worth blaming yourself for. Responsibility is about giving up on the chance of a different past and focusing on choosing the future.

When something goes wrong, the Blame Game offers us three options:

  • We are bad and wrong.
  • Someone else is bad or wrong.
  • The situation is out of our control.

Next week we’ll take a closer look at each of the options.

For now if you’d like to begin to explore how to stop participating in the Blame Game go ahead and ask for an Introductory Consultation today.

Also, the e-book “Develop the Mental Strength of a Warrior” (also available in a Kindle version) is packed with teachings, questions and exercises to help you move to the “cause” side of the equation.

I’d like to thank ICA for their support and inspiration for this topic.

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How is time comprehended?personal empowerment

Is it just with the aid of a wristwatch, office clock or the calendar hung on the wall?

Or is it something more fundamental than these?

Is it the cycle of the Sun as it causes the shift from day to night and back again?

Certainly these things contribute to an awareness of time passing and a method of measuring time, but the most constant reminder of time passing is probably the least obvious.

And by the end of this post you will discover a new perspective that will give you a sense of great personal empowerment!

Is time the passing of your thoughts?

Your thoughts seem to follow one another in a constant stream, and so give you an impression of time passing.

But are your impressions of time correct?

You may think of time as a constant, which started at the Big Bang and progressed relentlessly up to the present moment.

But time does not really exist in that way at all; what you think of as past, present and future actually exist simultaneously.

This may sound unbelievable because it seems to contradict all the experiences of your daily life.

However, as already shown, the way you experience your reality through the five senses is not how reality actually is.

Consider The Following Quotations From 2 Eminent Physicists

Professor Brian Greene states:

“The laws of physics treat what we call past and future on a completely equal footing. Even though experience reveals over and over again that there is an arrow of how events unfold in time, this arrow seems not to be found in the fundamental laws of physics.”

Albert Einstein said:

“People like us who believe in physics know that the distinction between past, present and future is only a stubborn persistent illusion.”

It would seem that time requires further investigation.

First, the true nature of an event needs to be considered.

An event can be thought of as any everyday experience, such as going shopping, having a discussion with a friend or going out for dinner.

Whenever you decide to do something there are always different probabilities you can choose from.

Even a mundane event such as going to the shops has several probabilities.

You can either go or not go; you can use the car or walk; you can go to one particular shop in preference to another.

These are just a few of the probabilities you can choose to experience in your ‘physical’ reality.

However, the true nature of an event is that, at some level of reality, all the probabilities exist and are part of your experience.

If this still sounds incredible, then consider the words of physicist Hugh Everett:

“Quantum physics predicts that all alternative outcomes of any given experiment must occur even though we may only see a single outcome. Somehow, those hidden alternatives must exist simultaneously along with the observed outcome.”

Life is Like An Orange (not a box of chocolates)

It may help to think of an event in your life being like an orange, which is made up of a number of segments.

Each segment is only part of the orange.

It is only when all the segments are viewed together that you consider it to be an orange.

When you experience an event in your waking state of consciousness, you are actually just experiencing one segment of the event.

You experience other segments of the event in other states of consciousness, where you use time and space in different ways.

From the point of view of your waking state of consciousness you string single segments together in normal memory to give you what you consider to be your past.

This Is Very Important To Remember

All of the segments, or probabilities, that make up a particular event are determined by your personal beliefs about what is possible and what is not possible.

It follows that the difference between a probability and a possibility needs to be clarified.

In a given event there are a limited number of probabilities, but there could be an infinite number of possibilities.

As an example, in a free and democratic country it is a possibility for anyone to become President or Prime Minister.

However, it is not necessarily a probability because of other choices people have made.

Probabilities, Possibilities and Chess

To help understand these very alien concepts of the nature of an event and the simultaneous nature of time, consider the following analogy.

Imagine a large piece of material with small squares printed on it, similar to a chess board, laid out on the floor in front of you.

In this analogy each of the squares represents an event.

The squares directly in front of you represent the present time, those to your left represent the past, and those to your right represent the future.

Now imagine yourself in a God like position gazing down at the squares laid out on the floor.

From this position you can see that past, present and future exist simultaneously, because you can see all the squares and all the events at the same time.

Now imagine crouching down with your nose just a few inches or centimeters from the squared material on the floor.

From this position you can now only see one square, or one event.

You can not see the rest of the squares, although they still exist.

You can move your focus from one square to another depending on your choice of direction, but you only ever see one square at a time.

When you move from one square to another you create an experience of time passing.

The true nature of the piece of material with squares on it does not change.

This analogy gives you an insight into how reality is experienced through the five senses one event at a time.

This same analogy can be taken a little further.

Imagine returning to your God like position so that you can gaze down at the sea of squares stretching out in all directions.

Now choose just one square.

This time, instead of imagining this square to be one whole event, imagine it to be one probability of an event.

Now imagine the surrounding cluster of squares touching it on each of its sides to be the other probabilities of the event.

You can now see that if you choose a different square from the cluster, that different square touches a different set of surrounding squares.

In this analogy, the different set of squares represents different probabilities that have now become available.

As stated earlier, the probabilities that are available to you in your everyday reality are determined by your beliefs.

Change Your Square

Changing a belief is represented by choosing a different square in this analogy.

With this understanding of the true nature of an event it is possible to exercise real power and this creates personal empowerment!

Remember that all probabilities of an event do exist and are yours for the choosing.

This means that you can take any event in your so-called past that disturbs you and choose a more favorable outcome.  This is where Time Empowerment™, NLP, hypnosis and even shamanic journey work come in.

The probability that you had previously accepted as the only outcome, now takes its place in your memory as just one of a number of probable outcomes.

When you no longer attach significance to this less favorable probable outcome, it will no longer affect your present experiences.

You really can choose an effectively different past.

This is not self deception this IS personal empowerment!

Your everyday experiences will actually change in line with this newly recognized past.

Sometimes people may question why they should have had to suffer poor experiences as a child, just because they had not yet learned about how their beliefs affect their experiences.

It can now be seen that all probabilities and all life experiences are simultaneous, therefore the beliefs of your childhood are formed not only in what you think of as your past, but also in what you think of as your present and, of course, your future.

It is only because of the piecemeal way in which you normally understand reality that you think your childhood existed before your present time.

But as the new understanding of time demonstrates, it is always from the present moment that you choose your experiences, whether you call them past, present or future and these experiences are always based on your beliefs in the present moment.

It is always from the present moment that you choose what direction you will take and which probabilities you will use in your waking state of consciousness.

You do not need to believe you are a prisoner of ‘karma’, or fate, no matter what events you think have happened in this or any other life.

All of the probabilities of any so-called past event exist now and are just as real as the one probability remembered by you in your waking state of consciousness.

Your present experiences do not have to be limited by any beliefs you have about your perceived past, because you do not have a single fixed past.

Changing your beliefs in the present moment gives you personal power and sets you free to choose your life experiences.

Some questions to contemplate:

  • How do you comprehend time?
  • Describe the true nature of an event.
  • Describe what is meant by a probability and how does it differ from a possibility?
  • Describe briefly how to change the past.
  • Explain why you do not need to be a prisoner of so-called past life events?

Please let me know your answers and additional thoughts in comment section below.

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